
“Before you diagnose yourself as an unhappy person, first be sure that you are not simply surrounded by negative people constantly trying to bring you down to their level”-marcandangel.com
EEEkkkkk I LOVE this. What better way to put it??? Sometimes we spend sooooooOOoOooo much time with the unhappiest people. We spend time with people who don’t treat us right, don’t want the best for us; some of them just want us to fail because it makes them feel much better about themselves.
You become the people you surround yourself with.
It’s the truth!
- If all your friends are alcoholic club goers-you become this too.
- If all your friends eat shitty food and don’t care about what they look like-you then will begin to not see your image and health as a priority.
- If all your friends are catty and dramatic, look at yourself and you might be the same.

having a lovely birthday dinner with my favorite other Aquarius Sean and all our friends
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- If your boyfriend starts gaining weight-watch where your weight might head.
- If your boyfriend is lazy and likes to watch TV, are you by his side?
- If your boyfriend loves to drink beer every night…look down at your belly and tell me how that’s going?
Like attracts like.
So attract something more by BEING MORE.
Be the person you want to meet.
I don’t care where you are in your life now and whatever situation you may be in, there always comes a time where you need to decide if you are happy….Change is hard, but change can also be easy.
With enough willpower you can change your life around, and the people you choose to keep in it. I have been going through a lot of this in the last couple years. I used to be a HUGE partier and got in a lot of trouble all the time. I used to date fellow alcoholics and negative-minded people and where did that bring me?
Today id happily be alone, then settling in the wrong relationship.
I’d happily settle for my few amazinggggg friends then have the herd of crazies I used to surround myself with!
I only want to focus on my dreams right now. You can go wrong with that. We are only getting older with every breath; make sure you’re truly living. Shut out the people who make you unhappy.
It’s the most liberating feeling. Good-day!


You only get older with every breath if you let yourself…I like the motto, how old would you be if you didn’t know how old you were!!!
Great post!
By: Baz - The Landy on February 6, 2013
at 12:30 pm
thanks so much! i love it too, so many of us think time is forever, that they always have tomorrow to be better, but the thing is we could die tomorrow, and we would have wasted our life always waiting for the next day when its too late.
By: Tiare Vincent on February 6, 2013
at 12:32 pm
I love love love this! Makes perfect sense and it’s 100% fact. I always say, if you can’t love the person you see in the mirror, you’ll never be able to love anyone else. Stay focused on you and the rest will work itself out!
By: Michael Adams on February 6, 2013
at 12:54 pm
I love the “Let go or be dragged” pic and quote.
By: organizednowplease on February 6, 2013
at 4:45 pm
Wonderfully written and nothing but truth! Surround yourself with the things you wanna be and thats how you get there. TY!
By: We Are 2Fit2 Quit on February 7, 2013
at 8:09 am
That is so true. It is so important to not be surrounded by negative anything or anyone. Great post.
By: LizForADay on February 13, 2013
at 1:08 am
thank you! and definitely agree with you!
By: Tiare Vincent on February 13, 2013
at 9:25 am
Reblogged this on Road Warrior Consultant.
By: Sophie on February 20, 2013
at 5:57 pm
thank you:):)
By: Tiare Vincent on February 20, 2013
at 6:00 pm